Coercive Control

Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of either assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse  that is used to harm or frighten or punish a victim.

Coercive control is often done behind closed doors so other people do not see what is happening. A victim can be isolated from friends and family and access to finances can be kept from them.

Confusion and fear add to this control and many victims don't recognise what is happening to them due to their perpetrator controlling many aspects of their life.

Common examples of coercive control are:

  • Isolating you from friends and family
  • Depriving you of basic needs, such as food
  • Monitoring your time
  • Monitoring you via online communication tools or spyware
  • Taking control over aspects of your everyday life, such as where you can go, who you can see, what you can wear and when you can sleep
  • Depriving you access to support services, such as medical services
  • Repeatedly putting you down, such as saying you're worthless
  • Humiliating, degrading or dehumanising you
  • Controlling your finances
  • Making threats or intimidating you

Coercive control is now against the law and the Police can prosecute the perpetrator. If you feel this is happening to you then please contact the police or a domestic abuse helpline.